COUNSELING, MENTORING & COACHING
You will experience so many benefits to a coaching, counseling and mentoring relationship with Joel and Kathy. It can be such a relief to find a couple who understands, cares, and most importantly, offers Christian marriage solutions that work!
(You will not hear us tell a wife that "you just have to submit to your husband" or instruct a husband that he is "the authority" over his wife.)
ONLINE TRAINING
Re-think what is possible in YOUR Marriage!
Our transformational online curriculum is designed to produce maximum results in minimal time. We support you every step of the way as you are learning new paradigms of marriage that will give you an outrageously happy marriage!
CHURCH SEMINARS LEADERSHIP TRAINING
MARRIAGE INTENSIVES
When you want your event to be a success, or if you need SERIOUS help for your marriage (and/or the marriages of those you serve) you need to be able to rely on your speakers to deliver a message that will inspire, entertain, and create positive, lasting, and permanent change.

Joel & Kathy Davisson
Specialists
My husband was abusive, committed adultery…and he was THE PASTOR!
That was our first 10 years. Now our marriage is our Happy Place! – and we have been “Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!” for 29 years! (If you are counting, 39 years married, since 1984.) Believe it or not, you can do it too!
For over 19 years now, we have been “Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!” while helping (mainly) Christian couples, ministers, counselors, and business/political leaders see their marriages transform from misery to Outrageously Happy. Now it is YOUR TURN! Let us “pull you out of the fire” and show you the way!
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Joel & Kathy Davisson
Specialists
My husband was abusive, committed adultery…and he was THE PASTOR!
That was our first 10 years. Now our marriage is our Happy Place! – and we have been “Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!” for 29 years! (If you are counting, 39 years married, since 1984.) Believe it or not, you can do it too!
For over 19 years now, we have been “Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!” while helping (mainly) Christian couples, ministers, counselors, and business/political leaders see their marriages transform from misery to Outrageously Happy. Now it is YOUR TURN! Let us “pull you out of the fire” and show you the way!
Are you and/or your spouse on fire for Jesus?
Is it frustrating as believers, that your marriage “should” be the “happiest of the happiest” but you are experiencing the opposite?
Are you tired of trying and things keep getting worse?
You tried “Love and Respect?”
Left empty with “His needs, Her needs?”
Been betrayed by “wife submit and follow your husband’s leadership?”
Things got worse when you discovered “Created to be his helpmeet?”
You have been to counselors, seminars, retreats, been to three weekends to remember?
Nothing has worked?
We understand. We were there.
Just like you, we were on-fire Christians, loved Jesus, while experiencing misery in our marriage!
Yes, we had good times. How could we not? We loved Jesus. We had 5 years of marriage with just the two of us. Then we had our first two children and a baby. We wanted to be happy. We wanted to live in the joy of the Lord. We tried. We had “good hearts.” But oh, were the bad times bad!
None of the “pat” or traditional answers worked. (They didn’t work for you either!) Answers such as:
“Kathy’s expectations are too high.”
“Only God can meet Kathy’s needs.”
“Joel needs to be the Godly leader.”
“Kathy needs to submit and follow Joel’s leadership.”
These ideas kept us locked in our prison of despair and misery.
We would have been that couple on social media who always showed the happy times!
(That was us on Sunday mornings! – Facebook was not yet around.)
No one would have known about the fighting, yelling, screaming, anger, resentment adultery, stonewalling, tears, desperate (seemingly unanswered) prayers and everything else.
Through a miracle of God, our marriage was transformed!
Just like can happen for you, our misery was replaced with Outrageously Happy.
We found ourselves “Livin’ it and Lovin’ it” after learning completely different, fresh, new (to us) biblically correct paradigms of marriage.
We were given a prophetic word in 1992. “I have brought you out of the fire, to take you back in, to bring others out.” That was definitely a FUTURE prophecy! (Isaiah prophesied: “Unto you THIS DAY, a child is born..” It was 2000 years later that prophecy was fulfilled!)
The first half of that prophetic word began to be fulfilled for us 2 years later. (Thank God it was not 2000 years!) In 1994, God took us “out of the fire.”
We lived our wonderfully happy, miracle marriage for 10 years and God spoke again: “Write a book, tell your story and what I taught you about marriage.”
That book took off like a rocket. We immediately found ourselves being repeatedly launched “back into the fire to bring others out!”
Marriage transformations ensued! Over and over, hundreds of times, God has enabled us to help couples just like you with the worst of the worst marriage issues; (not counting severe physical abuse.) God gave couples miracles, delivering them from the pain and experience of adultery, abuse, narcissism, pornography, divorced, separated... you name it.
That is where we find you. In the fire. No matter what your issues, you have found the answer.
Grab our hand… let us pull you out of that fire!
You can have an Outrageously Happy Marriage! Follow us – we will show you the way!
Love in Christ,
Joel and Kathy
“We show up when no one else does.”
PS In case you are wondering, we had four children plus 2 in heaven from miscarriages. Our youngest, 13-year-old Shekinah Glory entered Heaven in 2008. Shekinah’s entire life was enjoying our first 13 years of our “Outrageously Happy Marriage.”
Our other three children grew up in that environment for pretty much their entire lives. (Chris and Jenifer we 6 years and 5 years of age respectively when God pulled us out of the fire. Josiah was a baby. Only those early years were rough.)
That first book which God had instructed us to write is titled “The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!” It has caused miracles in marriages all over the world.
Over the next 2 years, God had us in "learning overdrive" as we interfaced with so many couples, seeing many miracles in so many marriages.
Those years culminated in “Volume 2: Livin’ it and Lovin’ it!”
PhD and Licensed Counselors utilize both volumes in their practices. They state that the books “fill in the missing blanks” of their marriage counseling, and are so helpful because they are real life; not just book learning. Many churches and Pastors over the years have also ordered the books in case lots to help their congregations.
People sometimes ask, “Do you have a PhD?” or “Are you licensed counselors?”
Our answer is a fun answer. “No. PhD and Licensed counselors utilize our books in their practice.”
What would we rather have? A PhD from reading other people’s books on marriage? Or would we rather write books that those with a PhD utilize and learn from?
We have been conducting Marriage Seminars in Churches since 2005 and what has been our ministry crown jewel, in-person our “5-Day Weekend Marriage Intensives” since 2007.
We look forward to getting to know you and helping you to experience the transformation from misery to an Outrageously Happy Marriage!
Here are the reasons you can depend on Joel and Kathy to help you transform into an outrageously happily married "power couple":
- REPUTABLE – Joel and Kathy Davisson have been around since 2007, respected leaders in their field and community.
- EXPERIENCED – Our proudest accomplishment is the large number of long term clients who put their trust in us year after year.
- INTEGRITY – Building a reputation of integrity takes years, but it takes only a second to lose. We don’t believe in cutting corners. The foundation of our reputation is our commitment to do the right thing at all times, regardless of whether anyone is watching.
- RESOURCES – We offer a wide variety of development and training programs built on timeless principles that get results.
- CUSTOMIZABLE – All of our curriculum can be customized to specifically address your individual and organizational needs.
- 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE – We want you to be completely satisfied with our services. We will do whatever it takes to make you happy. No hassles, no problems.
Our Best Selling Books

"The Man of Her Dreams
The Woman of His!"
Bestseller hitting #6 on Amazon in general books and has sold over 20,000 copies.
Volume 2: "Livin' it and Lovin' it!" has sold over 7000 copies.

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Five Foundational Keys to Having an Outrageously Happy Marriage
by Joel & Kathy Davisson
Joel and Kathy handpicked over 120 pages from their best seller, "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" to create this life changing e-book. This information has sparked miracles in marriages all over the world and is available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:
- The #1 Secret Key to an Outrageously Happy Marriage
- How to Understand the Subtleties of Your Wife's Heart
- The 3 Worst Marriage Myths that Destroy Christian Marriages
- The Truth about Love in Marriage - You Have Probably Been Doing This All Wrong!
- How to Have Great Sex for a Lifetime!
Joel & Kathy Davisson
Specialists
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Are you sick and tired of being STUCK?
We help Christian Leaders who feel frustrated, unsupported, and alone in their marriage finally transform into an outrageously happily married "power couple" who genuinely enjoy the presence, power, and love of God.
Ignoring a problem never makes it go away… it only makes things worse, and ultimately harder to solve. The good news is that you’ve come to the right place to jumpstart your life! The difference between staying where you are indefinitely or getting a divorce; and instead, moving forward to realize your potential for an outrageously happy marriage, is all about taking action.

Did you know there is a sequence to SUCCESS?
Success doesn’t happen by chance. It happens by choice. When you combine the right information with precise implementation you get rapid transformation!
We have identified that right information that any couple can follow to achieve outstanding results - an outrageously happy marriage!
In life there are always going to be ups and downs. What if you could learn how to make the up times in your marriage last—and minimize or eliminate the down times? We provide solutions that do just that. We are "Livin' it and Lovin' it!" If Joel and Kathy can do it, so can you!
We can help you achieve success in your marriage - faster, and with fewer setbacks. Don’t take our word for it… we’ll prove it to you!
We have the proven resources, coaching and mentoring ability to transform your marriage from misery to outrageously happy. From on-site workshops to online courses, coaching, group marriage phone calls, leadership training and more, we create change from the inside out. We offer a wide array of mentoring, coaching, and training built on the correct, timeless principles in the Word of God that get results. (This is not "wife submit to your husband, follow his leadership and respect him even if he does not deserve it. That message created a 50% divorce rate in the body of Christ.) We have been teaching mutual submission, mutual respect, mutual honor and team leadership to thousands of couples over the last 20 years. The message is 100% scriptural and because it is the CORRECT message from the Word of God, it WORKS!
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COUNSELING, COACHING & MENTORING
You will immediately begin to experience the benefits of a coaching, counseling and mentoring relationship with Joel and Kathy. As with any counselor, it can be such a relief to find a couple who understands and cares. That is great, but often the solutions are lacking. Most importantly, we offer Christian marriage solutions that work!
You will not be getting the traditional, canned, regurgitated, failed pat "Christian" answers that have contributed to the 50% divorce rate in the church. Instead, you will learn a revolutionary, new, completely biblical paradigm of marriage that works!

ONLINE TRAINING
Do you want thorough training to help you get your marriage healed, whole and happy, but can’t imagine it fitting into your busy schedule?
We offer powerfully transformative online video training that you can watch on your own time. So you can learn on your own time – and grow on your own time.
With every video, you will be challenged and empowered with the correct knowledge that can transform your marriage from misery to outrageously happy!
Re-think what is possible in YOUR marriage! You CAN be OUTRAGEOULSY HAPPILY MARRIED!

CHURCH SEMINARS
LEADERSHIP TRAINING
MARRIAGE INTENSIVES
When you want a seminar or conference to be a success, you need your speaker(s) to deliver a message that will inspire, entertain, and create positive change. You want more than temporary motivation... you want to create permanent transformation!
Whether conducting a seminar, guest speaking at your conference or conducting one of our crown jewel 5-Day Weekend Marriage Intensives, we deliver skill-building, God honoring, life changing content and cutting-edge insights that will educate and energize you and/or your seminar/conference attendees to greatness in their marriage!
We give practical support by offering advice and counseling with a view to improving areas that have hindered you. Whether counseling is a new experience for you or something you've done before, it is common to have questions about how counseling can help you and what to expect.

Our counseling and coaching service provides an interactive process of talking with a skilled professional. Sometimes the goal is to help you see and understand more clearly the obstacles which are preventing you from reaching your full potential. Other times, it simply helps to express yourself about painful or traumatizing situations that have been "eating away at you" from the inside.
There are many benefits to working in a therapeutic relationship with a professional counselor. It can be a relief to tell someone who is impartial about difficulties you have struggled with on your own. You may have a longstanding challenge, be experiencing new difficulties, or simply have the feeling that something isn’t right.
We are neutral and experienced professional who will not judge you or pressure you, but will work with you to move toward the goals that are important to you. Whether it is providing assistance during a current crisis, or helping to process painful events of the past, we are here to help.
We work to provide individuals, couples and families with effective therapy, knowledgeable support, and the opportunity to develop the skills needed to be successful personally and professionally. Then we help you identify and implement new strategies to reduce the barriers to your progress and acquire the skills, attitudes, and resources necessary to succeed.
Set up a free 15-minute consultation call to see if we are a good fit for you by clicking here.
Marriage & Family
Marriage and family are crucial to success in society. Yet more marriages and families are failing than ever before.
When a man and woman get married, the “two become one.” Marriage is a bond like no other. It gives us a life partner and teammate as we conquer the challenges of life together.
In this fantastic program you will discover how to make your marriage and family stronger than ever.
- 5 Essential Principles for Making Marriage Work
- Keys to Success in Blended Families
- Love Boosters that Deepen Your Bond
- Family, Faith and Finances
- Fun “Family Time” Ideas Everyone Will Love
Do you need a training to help you master your trade, but can’t imagine it fitting into your busy schedule?
We’ve built an online training curriculum that provides you with the benefits of live training, but without the constraints.

We offer high quality online video training that you can watch on your own time. So you can learn on your own time—and grow on your own time. We pour passion, knowledge, and practical pointers into all of our videos. Which means the trainings won’t just engage you; they’ll also change you.
You’ll become more knowledgeable, more capable, and more confident after going through our training. The skills you’ll learn will last you—and benefit you—for a lifetime.
Furthermore, we’ve worked hard to make our content is both easy to understand and easy to implement. All our trainings are broken into bite-sized lessons, which walk you through step-by-step until you complete the entire online curriculum.
Think about it…
There’s never been a better time in history to grow your skillset and mindset, since there’s never been a time in history when world-class training was so accessible! The internet has changed everything. The doors to growth, opportunity, and success are wide open. And so now is the time to train.
Accelerating Your Success
We all define success differently. For some, it might be the ability to purchase a new car or take a fantastic vacation. For others, it might mean being able to provide for one’s family, or having lots of free time to spend with them.
No matter what your definition of success, now there is a tool to accomplish it!
We will show you how to accelerate your success with an ingenious new system for maximized achievement:
- The 5 Laws of Rapid Advancement
- Surefire Steps to Becoming a Stronger, More Strategic Decision-Maker
- The “People First” Principles
- How to Find (and Become) a Magnificent Mentor
- Finally Revealed: The Real Secret of Success
Are you looking for a dynamic speaker that will make your next event a stunning success? Do you want entertaining and educational training that will leave your attendees raving long after the event? We've got you covered.

When you hire us for your conference, company, or church event, you don’t just get a bland, canned presentation. We customize every message specifically for your audience in order to achieve your desired outcomes. We get to know your organization, and your attendees, so that the message creates long-lasting results. Only material that is relevant to your audience is considered.
The married couple's straight-from-the-heart delivery, passion and energy, inspires audiences to go beyond their real and perceived limitations… and into step into their God-given potential. With charisma, warmth and humor, we deliver the right message for your unique audience.
As a premier Keynote Speaker and leading authority on helping Christian Leader Couples who feel frustrated, unsupported, and alone in their marriage finally transform into an outrageously happily married "power couple", we are a sought-after presenter who translates theory into bottom-line results for their clients. Rest assured, your people will love it. And they will be inspired to achieve more for themselves, your organization and your clients.
Our speaking schedule fills quickly, so we encourage you to contact us so we can set up a 15-minute call to determine if we are a good fit for each other.
Creating Breakthrough
In life there will be certain seasons when you feel unable to make progress. It may be in one area, like your finances. Or it may show up in numerous areas simultaneously and you feel “stuck” in your relationships, job, health and more. That’s when you need to know and employ the skill of creating breakthrough:
- How to Master Adversity
- 5 Highly Effective Tools for Leveling Mental Roadblocks
- A Foolproof System for Accountability and Follow Through
- The 3 Blind Spots that Undermine Your Best Efforts
- How to Use Risk to Motivate Change
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

Cameron and Jacqueline Merville
"Cameron and I struggled for many years and almost got a divorce. We were 5 years in marriage counseling and saw multiple counselors during that time. In May of 2021, we found ourselves separated. Thankfully, God intervened! The day of our separation we got connected with an amazing marriage ministry that turned everything around for us. That miracle was Joel Kathy Davisson. After just 1 month of connecting with them our marriage made a miraculous turnaround.
Now we have a happy, thriving marriage of 16 years! We both have the marriage of our dreams. We are thriving and happy. Which I know in the Christian circles sometimes to say you have a happy marriage is almost taboo. Especially after the whole “marriage is to make you holy not happy” movement. The truth is that you CAN have a happy marriage!
For example: A few months ago, right before bed, I was telling my husband how one of the kids spilled shredded cheddar all over the office floor and I was going to have to wake up and vacuum in the morning. I was too tired to do it. Next thing I know he got up and vacuumed my whole office for me! And then this morning I wake up to him bringing me breakfast in bed! These are the sort of things a girl could only dream about, but now it’s an everyday occurrence for me. He’s consistently looking for ways to love me and bless our family. Connect up with Joel and Kathy. No matter what your issues are, you too can have a great marriage!
We have now stayed involved for over 18 months. We look forward to meeting YOU! As Joel and Kathy say, you CAN have an Outrageously Happy Marriage!
Update: (February 5. 2023) Jacque and Cameron just gave birth to their” Joel and Kathy” miracle baby! A miracle baby for two reasons: First, because of having 2 heartbreaking miscarriages in the recent past and Second: Because they would have been divorced had God not intervened in their lives in May of 2021 to direct their steps to finding help from Joel and Kathy. Now it is YOUR TURN to get YOUR MIRACLE!"

Jeff and Heather Allen
"August 5, 2007 is a day I will never forget! It’s a day that will forever live in my memories as one of the darkest days of my life.
October 2007, a friend handed us a copy of “The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!” by Joel Kathy Davisson. I remember reading it in one seating! I could not get enough of it! Finally, someone who understood, who validated me, who knew what I was going through and was speaking to my heart!
Easter Weekend (2008) after spending months talking on the group mentoring calls, being on the forums and a few private calls to Joel and Kathy as well. That weekend was a changing point in our lives! It was the first time I ever say my husband cry over the pain that I was in.
The Bible say’s “Live with understanding of your wife, so that your prayers will not be hindered”. Well, I can say that my husband took that to heart! Today he is living in understanding with me...and the blessings have been many and great! I am now in a place that I never knew even existed years ago!
In 2007, I was facing divorce, today I wake knowing how much I am loved by my husband and cannot even fathom being anywhere else on this earth, than beside him! I can say that the journey is never over...but just gets better each and every day!
Update: On July 18th of 2022... we celebrated 30 years of marriage, with 14 of those years living the “Joeland Kathy way!” Our oldest daughter has gotten married, and our youngest is now engaged! They have both read BOTH books as well!
Within these last 14 years, we have moved twice, first to KS, (which was a MAJOR turning point in our marriage... Joel and Kathy had recommended that we move.) I know without a doubt I would have never healed if we had stay where we were. We healed, worked together and helped with this ministry for over 3 years.
On April 2, 2013, I lost my brother to suicide. At the same time my father went into full heart failure, andthen Jeff lost his job. All of this within a six-month period. So, we decided to move back to our hometown in SC. On the same day, April 2, 2014.... My father passed away.
Before our “Joel and Kathy Miracle” this would have probably put me in the mental hospital. But Jeff was so supportive and calm, he was able to help me through all the emotions and listening to my heart. We got through it. While it was painful to lose them both, I knew Jeff was right there beside me!"


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Having an Outrageously Happy Marriage!
by Joel and Kathy Davisson
Joel and Kathy handpicked over 120 pages from their best seller, "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" to create this life changing e-book. This information has sparked miracles in marriages all over the world and is available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:
- The #1 Secret Key to an Outrageously Happy Marriage
- How to Understand the Subtleties of Your Wife's Heart
-
The 3 Worst Marriage Myths that Destroy Christian Marriages
-
The Truth about Love in Marriage - You Have Probably Been Doing This All Wrong!
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How to Have Great Sex for a Lifetime!
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