When you need SERIOUS help for YOUR marriage with our 5-Day Weekend Marriage Intensive - or want your Marriage Conference or Seminar to be a success, or desire to have your Leadership effectively equipped to help couples in marriage crisis, we are here to help. Let our 20 years of successful marriage ministry bring a message that will inspire, and create positive, lasting, and permanent change. To register or learn more about our upcoming 5-Day Weekend Marriage Intensive and other resources, click on Shop Now




When you want your Marriage Conference or Seminar to be a success, or if you need SERIOUS help for your marriage (or the marriages of those you serve) - or if you are a Pastor who desires to have your Leadership trained to help couples in marriage crisis, you need to be able to rely on your speakers to deliver a message that will inspire, entertain, and create positive, lasting, and permanent change.


Do You Need SERIOUS Help for a Personal Marriage Crisis, Desire an Effective Church Marriage Seminar or Want Marriage Ministry Training for Your Leaders?

Marriage Seminar? Are you looking for a dynamic couple who will make your next Marriage Seminar a stunning success? Do you want entertaining and educational marriage training that will leave your attendees raving long after the event? We've got you covered. The next church mini-marriage intensive is in New Haven, Ct April 5-6, 2024. Click here

Your Own Marriage Miracle? Do you personally need to attend a 5-Day Weekend Marriage Intensive in beautiful Palm Coast, Florida -  to LAUNCH your marriage from any level of misery into what we call Outrageously Happy? We've got you covered. We work with all couples and give EVERY couple our full attention and care (the 5-Day Weekend Marriage Intensives are limited to a maximum of 4 couples) - but we take special joy in helping ministry leaders go "From Misery to Outrageously Happy!" Your marriage misery is affecting many for the negative. Let's get you into JOY in your marriage so that your JOY is now affecting many for the POSITIVE!  (Now taking reservations. Click here to register for the next upcoming date or call 386-334-7873 )

Leadership Training? Are you frustrated that married couples do not get positively impacted by the current marriage ministry offered (or not offered) in your church? We've got you covered! The majority of couples who attend our 5-Day Marriage Intensives have received BAD ADVICE from their local church Pastors or Counselors. Why? There are very few Pastors or church leaders who are qualified with the CORRECT KNOWLEDGE, experience and skills to actually HELP couples who are in severe trouble. You have options. You can send them to us, and we are thrilled to be of service - or have us train you, your leaders and staff counselors in those things God has taught us; key concepts and emphasis that have brought so many miracles to so many couples since 2004.

When you bring us in for a marriage seminar, conference or leadership training, you don’t just get a bland, canned presentation. We customize every message specifically for your group to achieve your desired outcomes. We are personable, attempt to understand your folks and make ways for them to stay in touch, so that the seminar/conference or training creates long-lasting results. 

As a happily married couple, our straight-from-the-heart delivery, passion, and energy, inspires couples to go beyond their dysfunctions and marriage miseries… and step into a marriage that fulfills its God-given potential. With charisma, warmth and humor, we deliver the right message at the right time for you and your people!

As premier Keynote Speakers and leading authorities on helping Christian Leaders and Couples who feel frustrated, unsupported, and alone in their marriage finally transform into an outrageously happily married "power couple", we bring real life results. Rest assured, your people will love it. Having a happy marriage will enable them to help others and achieve more in their relationship with the Lord. 

Our speaking schedule fills quickly, so we encourage you to contact us so we can set up a 15-minute call to determine if we are a good fit for each other.

Creating Breakthrough

You might be a minister, leader or a couple who loves Jesus but are experiencing hell on earth in your marriage. It is fixable! For 20 years, we have been helping severely troubled Christian couples and leaders go from misery to outrageously happy. The knowledge that we bring enables you to start on a journey toward healing, joy, and happiness. (And yes, happiness is a great goal!) The ongoing support and accountability of our group and/or private marriage calls ensure that a couple can have a wonderfully HAPPY marriage! You CAN experience a "Happily Ever After!" 

  • Why Past Baggage Does Not Matter 
  • Understanding a woman's brain and her memories
  • A Foolproof System for Accountability and Follow Through 
  • Why Men Flirt, Look at Pornography, get into adultery or just become narcissistic after marriage - how ALL OF THIS can be HEALED!
  • The Truth about Headship: The Source of Life and Strength in a Marriage. 
  • Even in the face of adultery, mental, emotional and spiritual abuse, narcissism, pornography, adultery, husbands not initiating sex, wives refusing to have sex - even in the face of these type of crisis problems, we have seen success with 100's of couples going from their crisis plague, miserable marriage to outrageously happy! 

    One of our FREE resources is a PDF copy of our "500 Testimonies" book. Many other testimonies are scattered throughout our books, past websites and emailed newsletters. We don't have couples sent to us with "small" or "minor" marriage problems. (We can only wish! Lol.)  ALL of our couples were facing serious issues. Most have been to many counselors, conferences, seminars and the like - with no success. Some have actually been divorced, others in process of divorce, many find us when adultery was discovered by their spouse. Our challenge to them - and to you - is "Give it one more shot. Let us be the final stop." If you work with us, you will have the best possibility of a marriage TRANSFORMATION. We will be with you every step of the way. 

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Five Foundational Keys to Having an Outrageously Happy Marriage
by Joel & Kathy Davisson

Joel and Kathy handpicked over 120 pages from their best seller, "The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!" to create this life changing e-book. This information has sparked miracles in marriages all over the world and is available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:

  • The #1 Secret Key to an Outrageously Happy Marriage
  • How to Understand  Your Wife's Heart
  • The 3 Worst  Myths that Destroy Christian Marriages
  • The Truth about Love in Marriage - You Have Probably Been Doing This All Wrong!
  • How to Have Great Sex for a Lifetime!
  • Plus a Bonus Chapter Especially for Ministers



Cameron and Jacqueline Merville

"Cameron and I struggled for many years and almost got a divorce. We were 5 years in marriage counseling and saw multiple counselors during that time. In May of 2021, we found ourselves separated. Thankfully, God intervened! The day of our separation we got connected with an amazing marriage ministry that turned everything around for us. That miracle was Joel Kathy Davisson. After just 1 month of connecting with them our marriage made a miraculous turnaround.

Now we have a happy, thriving marriage of 16 years! We both have the marriage of our dreams. We are thriving and happy. Which I know in the Christian circles sometimes to say you have a happy marriage is almost taboo. Especially after the whole “marriage is to make you holy not happy” movement. The truth is that you CAN have a happy marriage!

For example: A few months ago, right before bed, I was telling my husband how one of the kids spilled shredded cheddar all over the office floor and I was going to have to wake up and vacuum in the morning. I was too tired to do it. Next thing I know he got up and vacuumed my whole office for me! And then this morning I wake up to him bringing me breakfast in bed! These are the sort of things a girl could only dream about, but now it’s an everyday occurrence for me. He’s consistently looking for ways to love me and bless our family. Connect up with Joel and Kathy. No matter what your issues are, you too can have a great marriage!

We have now stayed involved for over 18 months. We look forward to meeting YOU! As Joel and Kathy say, you CAN have an Outrageously Happy Marriage!

Update: (February 5. 2023) Jacque and Cameron just gave birth to their” Joel and Kathy” miracle baby! A miracle baby for two reasons: First, because of having 2 heartbreaking miscarriages in the recent past and Second: Because they would have been divorced had God not intervened in their lives in May of 2021 to direct their steps to finding help from Joel and Kathy. Now it is YOUR TURN to get YOUR MIRACLE!"


Jeff and Heather Allen

"August 5, 2007 is a day I will never forget! It’s a day that will forever live in my memories as one of the darkest days of my life.

October 2007, a friend handed us a copy of “The Man of Her Dreams/The Woman of His!” by Joel Kathy Davisson. I remember reading it in one seating! I could not get enough of it! Finally, someone who understood, who validated me, who knew what I was going through and was speaking to my heart!

Easter Weekend (2008) after spending months talking on the group mentoring calls, being on the forums and a few private calls to Joel and Kathy as well. That weekend was a changing point in our lives! It was the first time I ever say my husband cry over the pain that I was in.

The Bible say’s “Live with understanding of your wife, so that your prayers will not be hindered”. Well, I can say that my husband took that to heart! Today he is living in understanding with me...and the blessings have been many and great! I am now in a place that I never knew even existed years ago!

In 2007, I was facing divorce, today I wake knowing how much I am loved by my husband and cannot even fathom being anywhere else on this earth, than beside him! I can say that the journey is never over...but just gets better each and every day!

Update: On July 18th of 2022... we celebrated 30 years of marriage, with 14 of those years living the “Joeland Kathy way!” Our oldest daughter has gotten married, and our youngest is now engaged! They have both read BOTH books as well!

Within these last 14 years, we have moved twice, first to KS, (which was a MAJOR turning point in our marriage... Joel and Kathy had recommended that we move.) I know without a doubt I would have never healed if we had stay where we were. We healed, worked together and helped with this ministry for over years.

On April 2, 2013, I lost my brother to suicide. At the same time my father went into full heart failure, andthen Jeff lost his job. All of this within a six-month period. So, we decided to move back to our hometown in SC. On the same day, April 2, 2014.... My father passed away.

Before our “Joel and Kathy Miracle” this would have probably put me in the mental hospital. But Jeff was so supportive and calm, he was able to help me through all the emotions and listening to my heart. We got through it. While it was painful to lose them both, I knew Jeff was right there beside me!"

Wouldn’t it be great if your ministry were full of awesomely happy marriages?

Wouldn’t it be great if God’s presence and love were so present in your couple’s homes that they would feel like they are experiencing the Glory of God in their homes, all day long, every day?

If you have had too many divorces in your ministry; if you have too many married couples “surviving” marriage instead of thriving in marriage joy and peace..  then you SHOULD be frustrated!

You are their PASTOR! You are their LEADER! This is happening on YOUR watch!

We have compassion for you. You have been reaching into an empty bag and offering “answers” that have not worked.  

If you are (rightly) frustrated, PLEASE consider this earth-shaking idea: You MIGHT have embraced the wrong conclusions about marriage, wrong approaches to marriage and wrong ways of teaching marriage.... Yes, that is a possibility!


My healing snuck up on me:  

 In our bad days, when Joel was in the affair, he wanted to buy the other woman some flowers. (I'll call her Jamie) 

Obviously, he couldn't just go out and buy her flowers; everyone would find out they were in an affair. 

He bought her flowers and gave them to me.  He told her that when she and her husband would come to our apartment, she would know the flowers were "hers."  

Sure enough, Jamie and I were in the kitchen making egg rolls after church for dinner.   As we came out of the kitchen, I saw the beautiful yellow roses and stopped to smell them.  "Wow, these are beautiful.  Joel got me flowers." I now know, in hindsight, she was thinking "those are my flowers, not yours."

 For those who do not know our story, Joel got into an affair in 1990/1991.  They left with the kids on April 1st, 1991. This was the exact day his father left his mom 19 years previous for another woman.  Generational curse?  Absolutely! 

Marriage Myths are sticking their heads back up!

A marriage myth is an idea presented as a marriage "truth" for the last 50 years but instead magnified the problems in Christian marriages.

After teaching how to have an outrageously happy marriage since 2004, there seems to be a resurgence of the failed marriage paradigms of the past.

"Wife only" submits.
Husband "loves" - wife "respects."
Husband is the "leader" (often presented as "servant leader" - wife is the "follower."

Plus, many more. 

Recently we attended a meeting where a couple was presenting a wonderful message from the Word of God. During that excellent message, they suddenly pivoted to marriage. Crash and burn!